300 Writing Prompts: What was the first thing you ever saved up your money to purchase?

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My TA Challenger (aka Dino)!

Per my last blog, I want to write about topic number 2 from 300 writing prompts. This time the topic is something that has been on my mind the past few days which is “what is the first thing you ever saved up your money for”? People save up for little things such as books, toy cars, toys, and crafting materials. In my case, I want to talk about my first ever big purchase that I have made. I have never had the inkling to say “I’m going to save my money to buy X item…” and I think still to this day that I am not that type of person. I do however have the inkling to say that I would save up money to buy two things: a car and a house. A car is needed for going to and from a location and I said to myself this is my dream car. The house is something I would love to own one day and like I tell myself sometimes it is a process. I also said to myself it would be really nice to have something I would be proud to call my own. I saved up my money almost a year ago and purchased (almost a year ago actually) a new Dodge Challenger.

A few months before the actual purchase, I started going over in my head what I needed to do to purchase my car. I said I needed to get rid of certain expenses such as cutting out eating out so much and only focus on saving up money for that final end goal. I also said in order to do this I needed to look at what I was spending my money on. Like any young adult, I usually pay for internet, rent, streaming services, gas, and food. I decided the two most important were gas and food. The gas was simple because of how much gas my car would guzzle throughout the week. I also figured that not eating out as much saved me so much money. As I went along in my process, I started thinking I really want this car because of how cool and niche the product was. As the months started progressing, I started seeing that I was getting close to my original goal of putting down a 7,000 dollar down payment. However, as I was getting close to my goal I realized that something was off. I had a weird feeling the weekend of March 5th as my brother asked me if he could borrow my older Toyota Corolla. I remember him, his wife, and his 3 kids were hauling off in my car as he needed it the next morning to go to work. I clearly remember walking towards Lowe’s as my brother called me and said he was sorry. I started thinking in my head what could have happened? He said he had crashed the car and he wasn’t sure what had happened. The first thing I asked him if he was ok and that’s all I cared about. Once again, he apologized and I said well time to get a new car. I saw what my account looked like and it was enough to cover the down payment (at least for what I wanted). As I started looking through the cars on the Dodge website from Fremont, I said I really wanted a car that will stand out. I remember driving a Yellow Mustang, in Florida and I said let’s go for Yellow. I also enjoy Yellow because it is the color of my favorite Baseball team the Oakland A’s and the color of some of the coolest things is Yellow (bees, leaves, zucchini, flowers, etc.). I saw it and headed down two weeks after to check it out with my family because I knew I wanted them there for that experiences .

I was determined to pick out this car and there were several other options. I also enjoyed this basic model they had of the challenger which was green and SXT but the one I wanted was a Challenger TA which was one of those special edition Challengers. After taking a few test drives, I realized this was the car that I wanted to settle on. Besides the usual paperwork and the talk between all the payments, I started thinking in my head about how much cooler and nicer this car would add to my everyday life. I always wanted to roll around in a sports car and now my life would be this. After a while of thinking about this, I also pictured what my life would be like if I didn’t have this car. I guess in a way I wondered about how the more expensive luxuries in my life would be exempt for a few years. I remember the conclusion to this argument in my head was that this is something I wanted and I worked hard to get the car. I also thought about the times I heard about parents buying their kids cars and how my parents had never sacrificed that kind of money on cars that were given to me. I always find a way to tie this back to my parents but in a sort of humbling way I’m glad I didn’t grow up with a car in the family. We would ask our neighbors or family for rides. If we didn’t have this luxury, we would take the bus to local places. Those experiences of never having to be indebted to a car was something I was very thankful as I grew up and I’ll never forget all those times we rode the bus.

Anyway, the two cars that were given to me as hand me downs were so great that I never forget the moments, memories, and the times I had in those cars. I also won’t forget that those kind of cars made me humble and thankful for what I had in my life. The last thought in my head during the whole purchasing process was that sometimes it’s ok to give yourself a little treat for the blood, sweat, and tears that you had sacrificed. Once I drove off the lot, I said this is new and exciting for you and enjoy this opportunity now. For the last year, that car and myself have taken quite the journey. We have been to Salinas, Watsonville, San Jose, Fresno, and Oakland. I’ve also noted how nice it is not to have to worry about my car breaking down in the middle of the road. The lesson here for me is that saving your money is not the easiest thing to do in the world but if it means that much to you to save up and buy that nice thing you’ve been itching for I feel you should go for it and be patient. I know that now with myself this car (appropriately named Dino), that we will continue to wreck the mean streets of the Bay Area and we still have many more adventures to take throughout the bay area. Till next time to see what I write about on ‘300 writing prompts’.

Day #61 8/8/11: Cult of Personality…

I went to wrestling this day and it was freaking amazing as most of the day I was busy trying to calm my niece down as my brother requested that I take care of her with his brother in law. After I had my time with my niece I picked up my niece and me and brother took the bus to wrestling here in San Jose. I joked with my brother most of the night as I waited for the wrestler of the moment CM Punk to make an appearance and it was quite extraordinary as to how much he has changed the perspective on wrestling and in a way he has made it cool again. I felt the energy of what it was like to be a wrestling fan again and the night ended with me and brother having some mcdonalds. I also couldn’t leave the show without my handy dandy new “Best in the World” T-shirt by the one and only Cult of personality CM Punk.

Day #33 7/11/11: I’m going to go to all the 7/11’s and buy 10 slurpees…

You’d think that me taking a bus would not have humbled me and to be quite frank it did for a long time. I took this bus for almost a week in the middle of may and it was a good experience as I looked forward to getting home and another day was when me and my friend from class did our survey together. This was also 7/11 day as some guy pointed out at work we should go out and get some free slurpees which by all accounts got disgusting for me in 8th grade. Not much to the day but I did find out that my friend at work is sort of a perfectionist type that need to finish one task completely before he moves on to the next one as he spent a good chunk of time working on a task that should have only taken him 3 hours max but it took him almost 5. Otherwise, a decent day.

Epic De-ba-tes,cute girls ride the bus too, a mother’s day special, and “yeah I think she likes me man”

What a crazy 48 hours it has been for me and I can’t say that it hasn’t been worth it. The other day, I ran into some problems with my car over at the bank, and I had to get it towed unfortunately which led me to think, now how am I supposed to get around? The next few days I took my dad’s jeep to work and school but then Tuesday came around and I realized then that it would be unfair for my dad to take the bus so we both came to an agreement that I should take the bus. As I walked towards the bus that morning, I realized we had a debate that morning in science class and I still had no clue what to say or even if my group would be willing to stick to our position. As I sat there, I realized that waiting for a bus can be tedious. I thought about my life, the weird things that would be happening or had happened in my life in the year that has gone by, and I then I wondered that you can’t make up some of these things. As the bus approached, I was amazed that for the first time in almost four years I was on a bus. I got on the bus and saw that there was maybe 3 people on there. As it got closer to the downtown area, I saw a guy getting handcuffed with 3 cop cars surrounding him near Fair Oaks and I then thought to myself  “This day is getting off to a fantastic start”.  I saw a somewhat attractive girl getting on the bus and it occurred to me that you can look “cute” and still ride the bus no matter how the circumstances may be. I was blaring the music through my headphones, thinking about this long journey that this bus takes, all the different people on it, everybody had or almost everybody had headphones on, and I was happy to be on that bus. It seemed that me getting on that bus for the next 2, 3, or maybe even 4 days gave me the lesson that you should never take anything for granted. Me having a car is and was still fun but there were times I didn’t appreciate how lucky I was. My dad and brother are trying there hardest to get it fixed and it should be ready within the next few days but transportation in any form really isn’t that bad. I would drive around to these far away places and I never once stopped to realize how horrible it was that I was living for that moment to be excited just to go somewhere. Taking a bus, I looked forward to school and this debate as well. It prepared me mentally to be prepared for school instead of just driving in a hurry. I got to school and I didn’t realize how big of a debate this was going to be until I saw the dividing groups and what there positions were. The debate was focused on whether we should drill in Alaska for oil or not. Some were pro ANWR drilling and others were not. We had the politicians, environmentalists, the natives, the fisherman, and the oil companies. For all intents and purposes, this debate seemed to be split down the middle as we had the argument of this is bad for the environment because of how much drilling is done to provide for America, it’s bad for the ocean, future generations will miss out on further opportunities, and the negative side mostly was all about money and what it could do for the United States. I felt sitting there that this was pretty epic because of the fact that I felt my team (Public) did present some very strong cases but seeing as how this is an environmental science class the good guy has to come out on top. It was amazing hearing the natives present there case as well because not many get to present there case such as they did. They did live on the land for quite a bit of time and the fact that they did get shafted shows how much people may actually care in the end. I was happy that the oil companies presented the argument of bringing in more jobs but what I found compelling is that this group only had two people and they still managed to get there point across. In the end of all this, the environmentalists were the ones that were voted as having the best argument due to how much of a case they made for America being able to drill elsewhere instead of just sticking to Alaska territory. I left promptly to catch the next bus available and waited gracefully as the next one came. This one felt like the old days when I would come home from middle school and the bus would be packed but in this case I had a place to sit. I sat there wondering, if the bus ever gets packed do people still keep there one open seat next to them? In my two days taking the bus, I have yet to see the case where even if the bus is packed would people still sit next to each other. A few hours passed and my brother had come to a decision to let me decide if he and I should take my mom out to eat for Mother’s day. I told him yes finally and I waited for my mom to come home so we could go out but then she told me aunt was coming over which was actually a surprise because I hadn’t seen my aunt in a while. But then I realized that my brother was going to bring his daughter and she can be a handful as she keeps growing up. I played with her a while while she tried to chase my dog out of the backyard but she keeps getting smarter everyday as she has that keen sense of intelligence. She is also growing up pretty fast and seeing her trying to put her two baby dolls to sleep is pretty funny because she believes they’re real. Having my Aunt there was pretty cool as I feel whenever she is there my mom seems like a much more positive person and her two daughters that were there are always willing to talk about anything when it comes to what is going with them. I had fun with that and it was nice to get to spend some quality time with some family members. As the day ended, I felt really tired and I asked myself this next day is going to be even more epic. Yesterday, I got onto the bus again and to pass the time I started doing some reading I had for POLI sci and the time went by much faster this time with me focusing on doing my reading. I got to school and went straight to the weight room and I did eventually tire myself out from so much exhaustion with the weights so I just called it a day at 12:10  and headed out to change and grab something to eat which I rarely do when I’m at school. I grabbed some food from whole foods and I was thinking if the A’s were playing thinking they might be ahead of the Rangers but turns out they got rained out! I just heard Chris Townsend blast the A’s for their lack of commitment to players and their ineptitude. I just kinda shrugged it because the A’s offense has to and will get better but then the most interesting part of my day started when I went to school to do a survey for my class. I headed off to school to do a survey that our professor had instructed for us to make up. I found my partner rather quickly the Monday before and she was rather attractive for my taste and plus add in the fact that she was very shy so I wanted to see if what one of my bosses at Big Red said was true. He told me last week about how he goes about hiring people and I remembered something he said and that was that “if you hire someone who is shy and who is to themselves they will eventually start to slowly break in and come out of there shell”. I saw her and I quietly observed that she is too herself but I enjoy talking to someone like that. We had a difficult time communicating the first day but yesterday was nice because I was able to reserve my judgments and I was able to have a decent conversation with her. We made our questions monday and they had to do with injustices, news, media, community, and also technology. We went around asking our questions and at first my partner and I felt our questions would fall flat. But, to our surprise most people were very open with their responses. My funniest moment was when we found my working buddy Walt and his girlfriend. I asked the questions and him and his girlfriend were very willing to answer the questions which more often than not led to some giggles. I then found this military guy who had a little bit to say and also my partner interviewed this middle eastern girl that had a lot about to say how she had been treated unfairly throughout her life and I could see that she didn’t complain about it but she would rather not have it happen like it does. As we were doing this, my partner was quite in fact talking a lot about what was going on in her life, her family, her up coming birthday which is pretty close to mine, and school as well. I was surprised that she had more to say than I did and right there I had this feeling that I might have been right about this shy girl thing. She talked about many different aspects of her life and I had quite a bit to say too and for some reason I didn’t want it to end but she had to go and take a test for her math class. With me having no car I caught the bus and I called my always trusting buddy Rick. Lately, Rick and I have been doing this weird voice that one of his friends from high school did and in this case we used it too. We combine it with the fact that some of our friends in life have used the phrase or some usage of “yeah man I think she likes me man”. We had a good chat and it is always good to catch up with him because we can get so busy but we forget that there are those people that have been there when it is good and bad. We caught up about our favorite baseball team the Oakland A’s but of course there wasn’t much to talk about because at the moment we know what we are getting with them anyway. They can only get better and I hope my friend shares the same thought as well. We caught up quite a bit and who knows maybe in the next week we’ll see each other once again. The rest of the evening was filled with taking my mom and the family out to eat for the special occasion of mother’s day. We stopped by the old stop El Amigo Burrito and we brought along our crowned jewel Jaz with us. She once again was a handful as she just wants to walk around and look at herself in the mirror which is a site to see because she doesn’t know that the magic of doing some of the things she is doing at that moment in her life is going to last her for that period. She didn’t want to eat and she just wanted to walk around. It was a good occasion for the family and it was one of the few times in the last few years that we have all gone out to eat. It was special because it made me optimistic that family will never go away and after a few tumultuous days I settled down to relax with my family and have a good two days with them. I hope I can have as good day or even two days like I did the past 2. Till next time and remember apparently the world is ending next week so stay safe!

Getting on a bus…

Buses, from my earliest days I can remember taking the bus and that’s all I knew at a young age, pay money to take the bus or walk somewhere so every time I did take the bus I was always wary of sketchy people as well as the potential crowded aspect of the bus. I can remember taking the bus to school almost everyday to Sunnyvale Middle School and I wouldn’t always get a ride from my friend’s mom in order to get there so when I did it was an adventure. The bus was always packed with kids who had day passes, month passes, and just plain old money so they could get on. I can clearly still see one of my friends holding his backpack in his lap and someone would ask him where he was headed and of course my friend would say he was headed to school. The worst and (funnest) part of taking the bus was making it in time to take the bus anywhere because the bus can only wait so long. I remember having to wake up at 5:45 in the morning to head to Homestead High school since I lived all the way in San Jose but the trip was very nagging because it was on a Tuesday and the night before there had been wrestling and I was very tired. I was glad that my mom sacrificed her well being to take me all the way up to school because she had to work that morning around 8 AM and I feel during those times when only my brother drove, as a family we were a lot closer because if we had to go somewhere we would take the bus to Wal-Mart, Vallco Mall, other cool malls in the area, downtown San Jose, and even to our family get togethers. We would essentially bond due to the nature of actually anticipating of going somewhere instead of actually saying ok let’s go to this place. The things I do miss from taking the bus are that you can let your mind wander freely as I have a vivid memory of taking the bus all the way to Mountain View where my brother worked in order to go see the A’s play the Tigers back in 2007 as I felt happy to be taking a trip down somewhere that I was familiar with but I had to spend little money in doing so. Me and my brother were still sharing an iPod Nano which was cool to have since I had just gotten into the whole iPod revolution. Another thing I miss is the way that the bus is filled with interesting people. I have a vivid memory of a less than impressive homeless man eating rice out of a tupperware and me feeling a little sympathy towards him as a 10 year old as I told my mom that I saw the old man eating rice like he did. I also miss taking the bus with friends. Now this one is a bit tricky because I loved my childhood but having friends that were always with you can be seem like a habit as I was with Adrian, Freddy, Chinoy, and all my other friends that lived in my apartments. After a while, I grew apart from those guys but we’ll always have the memory of taking the bus to school on a sunny day, cold day, and even cold days. One last thing I miss is the crazy ways in which buses go whether it’s going towards De Anza College, High schools, Mountain View, and San Jose. I remember feeling kind of dumb not knowing that some of these streets actually existed which for example was shown when I confused the actual street Santa Clara for the city Santa Clara which was a rookie mistake when I confused the two in my head as a young boy. Anyway, I do miss the VTA but now I have a car that is ready for anything and everything. Good night everybody, oh and here’s a great song.